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Signs that a woman has completely stopped respecting herself – this is how every two out of three women live
A person who does not love himself cannot be happy a priori. And here’s what’s surprising – few parents teach their children to love themselves. As a result (according to statistics), two thirds of women are never able to learn this. Naturally, this negatively affects self-esteem and self-respect.
And the fault lies with the wrong attitudes from parents, who taught that in order to be loved and approved, you need to do something, somehow deserve it. And if the child committed any offense, then he was seriously punished, mentally traumatizing.
Of course, there are no impossible things, but in order to raise your self-esteem and love as you are, you will have to thoroughly understand the essence of the problem, and before that, also admit its existence.
And this recognition occurs through the definition of characteristic signs of disrespect for yourself, among which we can highlight:
Unattractiveness to yourself. Of course, there are standards and stereotypes that dictate certain standards for appearance, criteria by which we are assessed and we evaluate ourselves and others. Non-compliance with them brings a lot of disappointment.
It is important to remember that not everything depends on appearance alone, and charm is much more important.
Total self-criticism. Not constructive, but self-deprecating. Because useful criticism works for the good and helps self-improvement.
And the one that pours negativity and does not bring benefit only harms. This is the clearest sign of self-loathing – when a woman criticizes herself for absolutely everything and does not work on it further.
Unkempt. Society does not oblige us to spend indecently large amounts of money on salon procedures. We are talking about basic neatness, cleanliness, accuracy and hygiene.
Significant savings on yourself. All the best – to children, brothers, matchmakers, anyone, but not yourself. This is a serious suppression of your desires and many important needs. A woman who does not allow herself even small material joys, unfortunately, definitely does not feel any respect for herself.
A very long reflection. Any criticism and negative assessments knock a woman who does not value herself off track. A person with healthy self-esteem is not affected by this nonsense, everything just passes by, without unnecessary worries.
Long-suffering with a bad attitude. Spouses, management, relatives or friends – all those around can put pressure on a woman, driving her into a state of continuous stress. Only someone who does not love herself will tolerate this.
Dependence on other people’s opinions. Someone supposedly authoritative tells a woman how to behave, and she acts in accordance with these instructions? She does not see herself as an independent person and does not feel self-respect.
Fear of demonstrating her point of view. A woman intimidated by public opinion will not object, she will take the side of the majority. Can her point of view, which is different, have weight? No, of course it can’t, given low self-esteem.
